Marriage is an important turn for anyone’s life. When any woman receive marriage proposal it is difficult for her to take decision. The basic principle of making a decision about marriage proposal is if that man possesses religious commitments and trustworthiness. Women should accept his proposal as long as she does not have any better offer.
Woman can also ask Allah (SWT) for the decision through Istikhara. Istikhara is an Islamic method that is done to take approval of Allah (SWT) for any kind of task. After doing dua istikhara for marriage proposal, the person with whom you want to marry, will surely propose you. The method of doing istikhara is given below: –
- The person who is doing istikhara should be neat, clean and in the state of Wazu.
- Before sleeping offer two rakaat nawfil with the Niyyat of Istikhara.
- After offering nawfil recite Durood Shareef 3, 7 or 11 times in the start. Remember one thing if you are reciting Durood Shareef 3 times in the start then you must recite 3 times in the end.
- Between Durood Shareef recite “DUA FOR ISTEKHARA” which is given below
Allahumma inni astakhiruka bi’ilmika, Wa astaqdiruka bi-qudratika, Wa asaluka min fadlika al-’azim Fa-innaka taqdiru Wala aqdiru, Wa ta’lamu Wala a’lamu, Wa anta ‘allamu l-ghuyub. Allahumma, in kunta ta’lam anna *hadha-l-amra (this matter) Khairun li fi dini wa ma’ashi wa’aqibati amri (or ‘ajili amri wa’ajilihi) Faqdirhu li wa yas-sirhu li thumma barik li Fihi, Wa in kunta ta’lamu anna *hadha-lamra (this matter) shar-run li fi dini wa ma’ashi wa’aqibati amri (or fi’ajili amri wa ajilihi) Fasrifhu anni was-rifni anhu. Waqdir li alkhaira haithu kana Thumma ardini bihi
During this Dua when the word “HAZAL AMRA” came think about your need of doing istikhara. “HAZAL AMRA” came two times in DUA-E-ISTIKHARA, so think twice during Dua about your need. After completing Dua Sleep toward facing the KHANA KABA. In shaa Allah you will get your answer through your dream or Allah (SWT) will show you by any means. If you do not get your answer do Istikhara for 7 days you will definitely get the answer. This istikhara for marriage proposals is able to become lover to your partner.
Dua istikhara for marriage problems
The relationship of husband and wife is gentle and strong. After marriage couples face troubles because of many reasons. The attainment of marriage depends on mutual trust and understanding of both husband and wife. If anyone failed on trust and love it will be difficult for the other one to sustain the relationship. Sometimes it happens that one of the partners tries very hard to delight the other one, but they are not convinced by the other partner’s effort.
It is normal to have differences with your partner, but when these problems get extreme, they can end the relationship. In this situation, partners should try to be calm with each other and concentrate on the other partner’s problems. You can ask for anything to Allah (SWT) by reading Istikhara, and almighty will guide you about what is perfect for you. Dua istikhara for marriage problems will guide you successfully for the right solution to your marriage problems. For performing Dua for marriage, you can follow the below procedure
Recite Durood Shareef 11 time before going to bed. After this recite Surah Al-Falak 33 time and at the end recite 11 times Durood Shareef again. Perform this Dua 14 day regularly and after performing this Dua think about your partner. You will be shown in your dreams what you should do. You can also do Istikhara by following the above-mentioned process by thinking about your partner at “HAZAL AMRA.”
Istikhara for love marriage
The first mistaken belief about Istikhara is that it can only be performed on ‘special occasion.’ Well, it is not correct. Istikhara can be performed each day even at any time. Anyone can perform Istikhara for love marriage. After Istikhara Allah (SWT) will guide you through dream but it is not necessary that you will get guidance only through dream. You will get direction through other signs also. A Good dream is a positive sign, and a bad dream is a sign of warning about the matter for which you are doing Istikhara.
If you don’t see a dream any issue, it is suggested that you should carry on your Istikhara for 7 days. Marriage is a holy relation of two persons which bounds them for forever promising each other to be therein good and bad times. Istikhara can help you whether you should plan your future with the person, you love or not. Allah knows what is good for you and Istikhara will ease your anxiety about making a decision. For performing dua Istikhara for love marriage, you can follow the below-mentioned process.
- Recite Durood Shareef for 5 times a day after Namaz,
- Recite Surah Fatiha any 3 times with Namaz.
- Now, before going to bed recite Ya Hameedu Tahmatta Bil Hamde Wal Hamdu Fi for just 1 time
This is one of the best ways to perform Istikhara for love marriage. If Istikhara indicates that you both are an ideal match for each other than you can marry each other without having any doubts in mind, you must perform Dua with pure heart and sincerity and believe in Allah (SWT) for your fate.
If you are doubtful that even knowing the right method of doing Istikhara that you will not perform it correctly. You should ask for help because if you do not perform Istikhara correctly you will not get an answer.