In our culture parent’s always want to control their child and tries to implement their decision on every aspect of their life. It doesn’t matter it is about education, carrier or marriage they always want to decide for their children. Parent’s brought their child in this world and no matter what they love their child a lot.
When it comes to marriage, they want to choose the life partner of their child. Sometimes they didn’t even ask their child about his/her choice and the kind of partner their child want. In 21 century there are some families and places where considering child’s decision is wrong, and boy/girl do not have the right to show his consent in marriage.
This kind of people surely didn’t understand Islam who clearly said that parents do not take any decision about their child’s marriage without their consent. If you are in a situation where your parents are not listening to you and forcing you to get married without your choice. You must try to handle the situation with calmness and explain to our parents why don’t you want to get married. If your efforts are useless, then you must do some wazifa or Dua to take Allah (SWT) help. Allah (SWT) loves you a lot, and he will surely make the situation easy for you. The procedure of Dua is mentioned below
- Offer Fajar Prayer
- Recite DuroodShareef 11 times
- Recite Surah Lahab 41 times
Bismillaahir Rahmaanir Raheem
Tab bat yadaa abee Lahabinw-wa tabb
Maa aghna ‘anhu maaluhu wa ma kasab
Sa yas laa naran zaata lahab
Wam ra-atuhu hamma latal-hatab
Fee jeediha hab lum mim-masad
- Again recite Durood Shareef 11 times.
Take two crystal of salt and blow on taking the name of both people. After reciting that prays to Allah (SWT) for your problem. Do this procedure to 21 days. In shaa Allah within few days your problem will be solved.
Wazifa to stop Forced Marriage
Everyone has the right to decide his/her life. When it comes to marriage, Islam has given complete freedom to a person to choose a partner for him. But unfortunately, we all are victims of backward thinking and do not consider boy/girl concern about marriage.
Force marriage is a sin in Islam and parents must not force their children for marrying someone. Arranged marriages are accepted and promoted in Islam, but it should be accepted but both bride and groom. If your parents are forcing you to get married without your will, you should try to solve the matter with the help of relatives or friends. In that kind of situation, most of the times you are alone so standup for yourself and decide for you. Allah(SWT) has given you the right to say no, and if you are happy with it say it to your parents.
You must recite some dua or do some wazifa with all your efforts during this situation. Dua can change anyone destiny and can make situation easy for you. Offer Salah five times a day and recite Quran-e-Pak on a daily basis. Recite HasbunaAllahuwani’mal wakil as much as you can during this situation. It is a very powerful Dua, and it can solve any problem through Allah (SWT) blessings. The meaning of this dua is that Allah alone is sufficient and he is the best disposer of the affair. In shaa Allah soon the situation will get easy for you.
Dua to stop Husband from second Marriage
Islam has given a man to marry more than one woman at a time, but he should provide equal rights to his all wives. He must provide equal rights (financial and physical) to both of them. Some women do not want to share husbands with any other woman. Women are possessive about their husband, and this kind of jealousyeven existed between the wives of Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W).
Islam understands the needs and demand of woman that’s why in Islam there are some really strict rules related to the second marriage. If anyone wants to marry another woman and he can treat both his wife equally, thenthe woman should allow his husband to get marry with another woman. The first wife consent is not perquisite for man, but he must behave with kindness and good manner with his first wife that will reduce the natural hurt with the time.
If any woman is not able to share his husband with another woman, Islam has given her the right to take khula from his husband. But if a woman wants to stop his husband from a second marriage, she must talk to his husband and her in-laws about this matter. Try to solve the situation through proper conversation within the home. You can also do a wazifa for seeking Allah (SWT) help. After every Salah recites “YA MANIIOO YA ALLAHO” as many times as possible.
Recite Durood Shareef in the start and also in the end. After completing wazifa pray to Allah(SWT) with pure heart and intensions. In shaa Allah within few days, you will see results.