Marriage or engagement is an important turn for anyone’s life. Marriage is not a necessity; it a choice and anyone must get marry with his/her full consent. In our culture, it happens especially to girls that they got engaged or committed without their consent. Parents mostly do not understand that their children are adults now and they can take their life decisions. Parents should understand their children needs while deciding for them. Even after engagement girl or boy find out problems in the relationship, and they want to breakthe engagement, but they are unable to do it.
An unwanted relationship is like a prison or living in the cage; no one wants that. In our culture, broken relationships or engagement are not considered good, so mostly families do not support it. In that case, you should tell your parents clearly that you don’t want to get married or get engaged and they should consider your opinion on this. Try to explain to them that you are not happy with their decision. During this entire situation take help from Allah (SWT) through reciting Quran-e-Pak, doing wazifa or by offering Salah. There is a powerful Dua that can help you to break your engagement if your parents are not listening to you. The procedure of offering Dua is mentioned below
First, you should pray five times a day because Allah (SWT) does not accept the prayer of those people who do not offer Salah on time.
You should recite below mentioned Dua after every Salah with Durood Shareef in the start and also in the end.
Allahhumma Allif Baiynaa Qulubiinnn Waa Asleehhh Zaataaa Bainiinn Wahdeenaaa Subuulaa Assalaam Waa Najjeenaa Minazzulumaatii ilannoor
Then make Dua to Allah (SWT) for breaking your engagement and ask him to do mercy on you.
Dua to Break Relationship
Haram relationships or illegal relationships are not allowed in Islam. Allah (SWT) does not restrict anyone to choose his/her partner for life. But it does not allow any to be in a relationship with someone with the intension to get married in future. In Quran-e-Pak Allah (SWT) clearly says that “man must never be alone with a woman unless there is a Mahram with her.”
In this world, no body is totally clean because at least once shaitan misguided use, and we do things which are forbidden on us. Whenever you realized that you had done something which is haram in Islam you must quit that thing immediately and ask for forgiveness from Allah (SWT). Allah Pak always forgive his creature you just have to pray with a pure heart. Allah (SWT) says “When my servant comes to Me walking, I go to him running.” If your friend, siblings or any your relative is in haram or illegal relationship, it is your duty to warn them about the side effects of that relationship.
If they does not listen to your advise then you must recite below-mentioned dua for them. You can also recite this dua if you want to end a relationship of yours with anyone and the other person do not allow you to do that. The procedure of making that dua is mentioned below.
- Before the prayer of fajar recite Durood Shareef 11 times.
- Then recite Surah Lahab 19 times
Tab bat yadaa abee Lahabinw-wa tabb
Maa aghna ‘anhu maaluhu wa ma kasab
Sa yas laa naran zaata lahab
Wam ra-atuhu hamma latal-hatab
Fee jeediha hab lum mim-masad
After Surah recite again Durood Shareef 11 times, blow it on the person for which you are doing this Dua. Do this for 21 days continuously. In Sha Allah, you will get results within 21 days.
Dua to separate two persons
Separating two people wholove each other is a sin in Islam. If you create misunderstanding between two people to separate them, make them fight with each other or to harm them Allah (SWT) will never forgive you for that. There are some situations in which you want to separate two people because of some reasons. For example, your husband is having an affair with another woman then you want him to breakup with the other woman.
If your daughter/son wants to get married to the person who is not good for him/her. In the above-defined situation if it is impossible for you to convince the other person, then you should recite some Dua. You don’t your loved ones to get hurt or go far away from you. It is allowed to do Dua to separate two persons with good intensions to fulfill your desire without hurting someone. You should not do any wazifa or Dua to hurt someone. Surah Fil is a small Surah in Quran-e-Pak and that surah can help you with this situation
Alam tara kaifa fa’ala rabbuka bi ashaabil feel
Alam yaj’al kai datum fee tad leel
Wa arsala ‘alaihim tairan abaabeel
Tar meehim bi hi jaaratim min sij jeel
Faja ‘alahum ka’asfim m’akool
It is only one day wazifa .You need some sand for it. Keep the sand in some bowl and recite Surah fil 21 times. Make sure that you recite Surah Fil correctly. In the end take the name of two persons you want to separate with their mother’s name.
After that divide the sand equally into two parts and throw each half of it in both person houses. If it is not possible try to keep that sand near their house. Make sure when you recite Surah fil when you are near the houses of two people you want to separate.